Do You Remember the First Time You Saw Them

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Do you remember the first time you saw them? Can you remember the way you felt when they looked at you for the very first time and smiled? Think back to the times when you couldn’t wait to see them again. Can you remember all the time you spent planning your limited [...]

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Shattered

Time heals all wounds but with all wounds, the scars are always there. When your heart is broken, it can grow back crooked and misshaped. Though the heart is healed, it can take on a new appearance or even learn to love less if you let it. A hardened heart can be one of the hardest things to let go of. There are times when not loving is easier because the risks of it breaking again are too great. Why try if it is only going to be broken again?

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You Are Not Alone

Nights seem to last forever as you turn an ear to a silent phone. Why don’t they call? Are they hurting just as much as you are? Are they thinking of me? Are they waiting for me to call or show up and say ‘I am sorry, I want to make this work and I will do anything to have you back’?

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The Feeling Better Bootcamp with SuperDave71

Believe it or not, we stay locked in a state of self pity until we tell ourselves to let it go. It may be next week, a month…a few days…but the time will come. Put your mind to work today. Instead of thinking about your problems…issues…situation…focus on you today.

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When Am I Going To Start Feeling Better?

I remember that when time passed…the days turned into weeks, the weeks into months…that I would ALWAYS think of her at least once or more a day. One day, I woke up like any other and thought to myself, “Hey…..I didn’t think of her yesterday!” Sad to admit to you all, but I felt GUILTY for NOT thinking of her

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Sarah and Santa

“The girl in the photograph… My granddaughter well you see … She has leukemia and isn’t expected to make it even through the holidays” she said through tear-filled eyes. “Is there any way, Santa, any possible way that you could come see Sarah? That’s all she’s asked for for Christmas is to see Santa.”

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How EXACTLY is No Contact Supposed to Work for Me

Plain and simple, it is giving your partner all the time the need WITHOUT any contact from you.

The following is considered contact:

-Phone Calls
-Text Messages
-Emails
-Notes or messages thru mutual friends or family
-Purposely showing up where you know they might be ( Home, Job, Local Hang out, etc)

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Personal Thoughts on No Contact

You slowly put your cell phone back in your pocket but you cannot find the words, any words at all, that would express the feelings you feel inside at this very moment. You chest feels empty. It begins to feel as if something is missing and that “thing” becomes clearer and clearer the more you think about it. The love you once had just walk right out of your life

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Don’t Take Your Love Away

As the night lingers on, you hang off the side of the bed with your heading hanging heavy in your hands. The clock on the side of the bed shines a bright 3:30 AM. You can’t seem to sleep because the loneliness keeps waking you from your already troubled mind. The questions of why, how and when start to swirl around your head as silent tears fall as you try to convince yourself this isn’t happening.

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Missing You

The emptiness you feel inside is taking over who you used to be. What happened to the late night talks on the phone when you couldn’t be together. All the trips, the meeting their family for the first time, the glances and smiles from across the room. What ever happened to the “spooning” in the bedroom as you fell asleep together?

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