Love’s Labour’s Lost

Ask yourself this question, if you didn’t know what you wanted, how would you change in order to get it? Silly question yet makes an important point. First, if you don’t know what you want, you can’t get it. Not very complex to understand but knowing what you want is the first step. Let’s delve a little deeper shall we?

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One Moment In Time

I am no different than you. The lessons I have learned from such experiences is not to waste time. Live your life because you only have ONE chance at it. You only have ONE shot to get it right. If you choose to hold grudges or not to talk with family or friends because you may have had a disagreement, that is your business but I choose to do the right thing.

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Always Thinking of You

I could not get her out of my head, let alone my heart. I would often think of her having a great time with the new guy and it made me sink even deeper into the darkness we call depression. Time seemed to stand still. The nights were the worst. Nights would become my enemy. It was almost like a reversed vampire

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Learning Without Thought is Labor Lost

If you feel as if you are nothing because your partner left you or even that you feel as if you can’t go on, you need to seriously do some re-evaluating of your own self-worth. Do you realize that your partner did not make you FEEL a certain way? You created the feeling based on how they treated you. You are the one responsible for your own feelings, thoughts and actions

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A Different Kind of Perspective

Your phone calls that used to come regularly throughout the day have begun to fade. The silly emails are no longer being sent and the two words “Just because” are rarely used anymore. Several nights in a row your partner is distant, not only in mind but in body. The very reasons you want to see them are the very reasons they don’t want to see you.

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Losing You

Love is not a compromise. It is a mutual choice and to do it on a consistent basis not because you have to but because it comes naturally. Love is patient, love is kind. If you let go of all the negative things and experiences that love was involved in (divorce or breakup) the truth be told is that it wasn’t love that hurt you, it was HOW the person loved you that did. There are so many stages of love but if someone doesn’t know how to love you, it will never work.

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